How to Plan a Wedding Without Making It Your Entire Personality
1. How to Plan a Wedding Without Becoming Bridezilla 24/7
Real talk: wedding planning can lowkey take over your life. One minute, you’re vibing; the next, you’re crying into swatches of fabric. Here’s how to stay sane AND still throw a wedding that actually feels like you.
1. Pick Your Non-Negotiables
Ask yourself: what actually matters?
The vibe—cozy backyard or sleek city hall?
Food that makes people say “OMG” (tacos count)
A guest list that won’t feel like a reunion you didn’t sign up for
Everything else? Trash it or outsource. You do you.
2. Social Media Is a Highlight Reel
Instagram weddings look flawless, but filters, lighting, and Photoshop exist. Don’t plan your life around someone else’s feed. Your wedding ≠ their curated photos.
3. Delegate Like a Boss
You don’t have to micromanage everything. Ask for help, hire pros, then let them do their thing. Freedom > stress.
4. Boundaries > Drama
Family opinions will show up. Politely shut down unsolicited advice with:
“Thanks! We’ll think about it, but this is our choice.”
The people who matter will respect it.
5. Schedule Bride-Free Time
Concerts, hikes, Netflix binges—do normal things. Your wedding is a day; your life is forever.
Truth Bomb: Your wedding is part of your life story, not the whole story. Own it your way.
2. Wedding Planning Burnout Is Real—Here’s Your Survival Guide
If planning your wedding has you screaming into your pillow, you’re not alone. Burnout is real, but totally avoidable.
1. Break the Timeline, Don’t Break Yourself
Forget the traditional 12–18 month anxiety timelines. Break it down:
6–9 months: Lock venue, vendors, dress
3–6 months: Invitations, decor, hair/makeup trials
1–3 months: Final touches, fittings, rehearsal
Pacing > perfection.
2. Squad Goals, But Chill
Your bridal party should:
Listen without judgment
Support your weird ideas
Handle drama like pros
If they can’t? Cut ’em. Your wedding isn’t a reality show.
3. Good Enough Is Actually Legendary
The playlist doesn’t have to slap for everyone. Flowers don’t need to be exact Pantone. “Good enough” often ends up being perfectly you.
4. Mental Health Days Are Non-Negotiable
Meditate, scroll TikTok, nap, take a walk—anything not wedding-related. Burnout is preventable if you take breaks.
5. Reconnect With Your “Why”
Why are you doing this? Love? Memories? Partying with people who matter? Keep that front and center. It’ll save you from obsessing over tiny details.
Truth: Your wedding day is one day. Your marriage + mental health = forever. Prioritize that.
And of course: hire us for your photography, videography, content creation and we can even help with planning!
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